When you’re playing on a sports team, and you lose the game, you lose the game.
When you’re taking a test, and you don’t know the answer, you just don’t know the answer, and there is no “A” for effort.
When you’re giving a presentation at work, and you mess it up or screw up the sales pitch, you’re done. You don’t get a second chance.
When you’re in dance class, you can apologize to your dance partners before and after an exercise. You can explain what you were thinking when you screwed up. You can try new things, and maybe they don’t work out. It’s okay to make mistakes in class. That’s what class is for. That’s why you’re there.
But when you’re performing, you get one shot.
In class, Carolena talks about “feeling the fear” of being onstage, and how necessary that mindset is to provide a flawless show. If you mess up dramatically and visibly on stage, I guarantee that almost no one in the audience will be thinking “well, that was weird and I didn’t really like that, but I suppose she did the best she could.” Nope. The audience member leaves thinking “wow, that was weird and awful.” Or maybe they forget your performance entirely.
In other words, if you go on stage thinking “oh, I’ll just go out there and do the best I can,” frankly, you won’t. Per Carolena, you need to feel the fear. You need to go onstage and be flawless.
Does this scare you? It should. Performances should be scary.
You might get to apologize to your dance partners, but you don’t get to apologize to the audience. They already have their experience; they don’t care about your explanation or excuses.
Here’s an example.
I’d had a long day at the office, but I’d promised Carolena I’d show up to be a student for a taping for the PowHow classes. So I came to the studio, put on some makeup, and tried to transition my brain quickly from Nerdy Day Job Brain into Dancer Brain. It takes some time, you know, to transition mentally as well as physically.
But the taping started right away. Carolena had been there all day, as had some of the other “students,” and I was one of a couple people who was coming to provide a boost of energy at the end of a long taping day. I had to make a really quick transition, because we started with recording the drill portion, and somehow I found myself in the lead.
“Ok,” I said to Carolena, thinking I was showing a great positive attitude, “I’ll do the best I can.”
But that’s not what she wanted to hear, and rightly so. There was no time or space or energy for “the best I can.”
“No,” she said, “you will do it.”
If you’re practiced at feeling the fear, you can move past the sheer terror of stage fright and use the adrenaline of being on stage, combined with your skill and presence of mind, to bring the most high-energy, flawless, immersive performance that audience has ever seen. There will be no room in your brain to make a mistake.
“The best you can,” in performance, is a cop-out. As an audience member, I want you to be magical.